Ndi tsoka kwa bambo ngati ameneyo kukhala ndi mwana wamkazi. Kuphatikiza pa mfundo yakuti amachita zomwe zimalowa m'mutu mwake, amanyozanso. Aliyense ali ndi njira zawo zolangira, kotero kuwombera ntchito ndi kugonana kotsatira sindikudabwa. Ndinathira umuna wambiri pamwamba pake. Izi zikachitika nthawi zambiri, sitidziwa ngati mwana wamkaziyo angavutitse bambo ake mwadala, kapena nthawi zina amangowasokoneza pambuyo pozembera kwina.
Msungwana wamng'onoyo anaganiza kuti ayenera kukondweretsa mlangizi kuti apambane mayeso. Ndipo kotero iye anayamwa tambala wake, ndiyeno analumphira pamwamba pa iye.